The Du’a of Reconciliation

وكان يُعلِّمُنا كلماتٍ ولم يكن يُعلِّمْناهنَّ كما يُعلِّمُنا التشهدَ

اللَّهُمَّ أَلِّفْ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِنَا، وَأَصْلِحْ ذَاتَ بَيْنِنَا، وَاهْدِنَا سُبُلَ السَّلَامِ، وَنَجِّنَا مِنَ الظُّلُمَاتِ إِلَى النُّورِ، وَجَنِّبْنَا الْفَوَاحِشَ مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا وَمَا بَطَنَ، وَبَارِكْ لَنَا فِي أَسْمَاعِنَا، وَأَبْصَارِنَا، وَقُلُوبِنَا، وَأَزْوَاجِنَا، وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا، وَتُبْ عَلَيْنَا إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ التَّوَّابُ الرَّحِيمُ، وَاجْعَلْنَا شَاكِرِينَ لِنِعْمِكَ مُثْنِينَ بِهَا عَلَيْكَ، قَابِلِينَ لَهَا، وَأَتِمِمْهَا عَلَيْنَا    

الراوي : عبدالله بن مسعود

Abdullah ibn Mas’ood, may Allah be pleased with him, narrates that the Prophet ﷺ would teach his Companions the supplication recited after the tashahhud together with the tashahhud itself, in the same careful and deliberate manner. This is the Du’a of Reconciliation.

The transmission of the noble companion Abdullah ibn Mas’ud, may Allah be pleased with him, conveys a strong recommendation from the Messenger of Allah, ﷺ  to learn this supplication. This infers the importance and the great benefit of understanding and embodying the meanings of the du’a.

Oh Allah! put harmony between our hearts,

In other words, make that there are feelings of affection, trust and sincere respect between us from which we will experience unity, solace and encouragement in the trials of life

Bring reconciliation between us

And, if there have been episodes of misunderstanding, hurting of feelings, or enemies sowing discord between us, both from among people or from the machinations of the mind or the whisperings of the shayatin, we ask Allah to eliminate those causes of separation and restore good faith, respect and trust between us

Guide us on the paths of peace and safety

In the choices of our thoughts and intentions and in the course of our own actions, guide us on paths of safety, with remembrance and not with negligence, with knowledge and not with ignorance, with wisdom and not obeying our lower passions, in good sound and noble company and not in company that causes confusion and awakens bad ideas and wrong beliefs

Recue us from darkness into light

In all matters of our relations, in our family, among the ones we love, rescue us from the dangerous territories of suspicion, frustration, despair and mistrust -which are darkness- and take us to spaces of gentleness, adab, generosity, indulgence with the faults and slips of others and to good actions -which are light.

And save us from indecent acts, the visible ones and the hidden ones

The supplication now turns to our own safety by asking Allah to shield us from ugly indecent actions, words and thoughts, both public and secret. The word al-fawahish, refers mostly to indecorous behaviour and speech, related to sexual matters.

Bless us in our hearing, our sight, our hearts, our spouses, our descendants

And after that, we ask Allah to bless us in how we use our precious faculties of seeing, hearing and the contents of our hearts (beliefs, intentions and thoughts) and Allah’s blessing us here means to keep them free from haram and evil, bless our spouses, so that they are a source of safety, support and good advice to us and bless our children and grandchildren, so that they are a cause of joy, tranquility and assistance when we need it and not a source of shame, trouble, anxieties and concerns.

And turn to us in forgiveness, Truly You are the ever turning to His slaves in forgiveness, Compassionate.

While we hope from Allah His assistance in all the matters mentioned above, we acknowledge our own mistakes, forgetfulness, wrongdoing, inclinations to the contrary of what has been mentioned, and we beseech Him to forgive us.

Make us thankful for your blessings

We ask Allah to imbed gratitude in our hearts for the blessings of life, the good moments, the provision and the light of guidance, the love and the support of those who love us and the innumerable blessings of day and night. Gratitude is the healing of all dark ideas and feelings and the key for those blessings to increase, as promised in the Qur’an.

Expressing our gratitude by praising You

Gratitude might be only an internal state of recognition of the goodness and acknowledgement of the kindness of the Giver, but the Prophet, ﷺ teaches us to seek verbal expression of the gratitude by speaking well of Allah, as also repeated in the Qur’an. “And as for the blessings and gifts of your Lord, speak out.”

Accepting Your gifts. And complete them for us.

It might be that we are blessed with gifts in life and we do not see them, we do not recognize them, we think little of them and we do not accept them. If that is the case, we are likely to lose them. So, we ask Allah that He grants us acceptance of His gifts and that He, glory be to him, increases and perfects those gifts to us, the material ones like provision, resources, as well as the immaterial ones like health and harmonious relations, brotherhood with the believers and successful accomplishment of all good actions.

Abdulhasib Castiñeira

Darling, South Africa 31st December 2025

اللَّهُمَّ أَلِّفْ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِنَا،

 وَأَصْلِحْ ذَاتَ بَيْنِنَا،

 وَاهْدِنَا سُبُلَ السَّلَامِ،

 وَنَجِّنَا مِنَ الظُّلُمَاتِ إِلَى النُّورِ،

 وَجَنِّبْنَا الْفَوَاحِشَ مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا وَمَا بَطَنَ،

 وَبَارِكْ لَنَا فِي أَسْمَاعِنَا،

 وَأَبْصَارِنَا،

 وَقُلُوبِنَا،

 وَأَزْوَاجِنَا،

 وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا،

 وَتُبْ عَلَيْنَا إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ التَّوَّابُ الرَّحِيمُ،

 وَاجْعَلْنَا شَاكِرِينَ لِنِعْمِكَ مُثْنِينَ بِهَا عَلَيْكَ،

 قَابِلِينَ لَهَا،

 وَأَتِمِمْهَا عَلَيْنَا

I am in my believers opinion of Me

This was a poem written by Shaykh Abdalqadir as-Sufi and given to me in the zawiyyah in Bristol Gardens, London in the early 1970s, along with a note he wrote, unfortunately lost, which said words to the effect, ‘he who digs a hole for his brother falls into it himself’, referring to sayyidina Yusuf, alayhi sallam.

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The original hand written poem from Shaykh Abdalqadir’s hand to mine
Rendered more legible

I am in my Believer’s opinion of Me

Hadith Qudsi

This contains a great secret

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Your belief about Him

Is the extent of your knowledge of Him

The extent of your knowledge of Him

Is the extent of your own nafs

The nature of your knowledge of Him

Is none other than your own

Knowledge of your nafs

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Mawsim Khutbah October 14th 2022 

 

The importance of leadership in the Jama´ah 

 

Imam Hajj Abdulhasib Castineira

 

الحمد لله على نعمة الإسلام والحمد لله على نعمة الجماعة والحمدلله‏على الأخوة والوفاء وعلى التعاون على البر والتقوى، نحمده تعالى ونستعينه، ونشكره تعالى ونستغفره ونستغيثه، نعوذ بالله من شرور أنفسنا ومن سيئات أعمالنا، من يهد الله فهو المهتد ومن يضلل فلن تجد له وليا مرشدا، ونشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له، له الملك و له الحمد، يحيي ويميت، بيده الخير، وهو على كل شيء قدير، ونشهد أن سيدنا و مولانا محمداً عبده ورسوله، وحبيبَه وصفيَّه، بلغ الرسالة وأدّى الأمانةَ ونصح الأمة، النبي الأمي الذي أرسله الله بالهدى والدين الحق، بشيرا ونذيرا بين يدي الساعة، صلى الله عليه وسلم وعلى آله وأصحابه ومن تبعهم بإحسان إلى يوم الدين

أما بعد! فيا عباد الله اتقوا الله حق تقاته ولا تموتن إلا وأنتم مسلمون. يأيها الذين ءامنوا اتقوا الله وقولوا قولا سديدا يصلح لكم أعمالكم ويغفر لكم ذنوبكم. ومن يطع الله ورسوله فقد فاز فوزا عظيما. اتقوا الله فيما أمر وانتهوا عما نها عنه وزجر.

يأيها المسلمون!  يقول الله تعالى في محكم آياته وهو أصدق القائلين:

اِنَّ اَ۬لذِينَ يُبَايِعُونَكَ إِنَّمَا يُبَايِعُونَ اَ۬للَّهَ يَدُ اُ۬للَّهِ فَوْقَ أَيْدِيهِمْۖ  فَمَن نَّكَثَ فَإِنَّمَا يَنكُثُ عَلَيٰ نَفْسِهِۦۖ وَمَنَ اَوْف۪يٰ بِمَا عَٰهَدَ عَلَيْهِ اِ۬للَّهَ فَسَنُوتِيهِ أَجْراً عَظِيماٗۖ 

Allah says in His noble Book, the translation of which is: 

Those who pledge you their allegiance, pledge allegiance to Allah. Allah’s hand is over their hands. He who breaks his pledge only breaks it against himself. But as for him who fulfils the contract he has made with Allah, We will pay him an immense reward.” (Surat al-Fath. 48:10) Continue reading “Mawsim Khutbah October 14th 2022 “

Mawsim Cape Town 2022

Hajj Abdarrazaq Redpath

15th October 2022

Shaykh Abdalqadir as-Sufi at the Jumu’a Mosque of Cape Town

 

Audhu billahi-minash-shaytanir rajeem

Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim

We are gathered here this weekend to celebrate the birthday of Shaykh Abdalqadir as – Sufi. To really celebrate him we need to remind ourselves of his teaching and what he brought us throughout his life. He did not call to himself, but to the remembrance of Allah and His Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallim, and what was established in Madinah as a blueprint for all of mankind, the Deen established and practiced in its purest and most perfect form. 

As he said at the start of Root Islamic Education: 

“Islam is not, and can never be, by definition, in crisis or need of revisionist change, Islam, Kitab wa Sunnah, is immutable in all places until the end of time. It is itself a critique and balance-principle against which all human ventures must be measured and themselves revised and changed”.

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MAWSIM CAPE TOWN

Mawsim of Shaykh Abdalqadir as-Sufi

may Allah be pleased with him

16th October 2022, Cape Town

Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullah

Allah has gathered us all together in this blessed Jumu’ah mosque, in this blessed city of the mountain, sea and awliya, to honour the blessed life of sayyidina Shaykh Abdalqadir as-Sufi, may Allah have mercy on him, as was fore-ordained before anything came into existence. Each person is here because He, subhanahu wa ta’ala, decreed that it should happen; it is His will and for His purpose.

Allah, subhanahu wa ta’ala, has made clear to mankind that He wants us to know Him in His Mercy and Majesty, and to that end He brought forth creation, which was firstly recorded in a book, from beginning to end. Nothing and no one outsteps what Allah wants, either in time or place, whether sun, sand particle, animal, jinn or human being.

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Delineation of the 10 Stages of Love from the Book of Hubb

BOOK OF HUBB by Shaykh Dr. Abdalqadir as-Sufi

May Allah have Mercy upon him and grant him the highest assembly in the company of our Rasul, gazing on the Face of Allah eternally

THREE FOUNDATIONAL TERMS OF LOVE

  1. Mahabba – Affection

2. Ishq – Ardent Love

3. Muwafaqa – Compatability

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Norwich Jumu’ah Khutbah

6th August 2021 / 26th Dhul Hijjah 1442

Recently we mentioned a most important ayah from Surah adh-Dhariah in Allah’s book,        

بعد أعوذ بالله من الشيطان الرجيم  

56  I did not create jinn and man except to worship Me.

This reminds us, firstly, that we, that is, Jinn and Men, are Allah’s creation, with no say in our coming into existence or departure, leaving us without doubt about our origins, and clarifying that our parents are not the initiators of our arrival, and, secondly, why we are here.

The universe and our world, including the Jinn were already created by Allah before Adam’s mud was invested with spirit, and by this introduction Allah’s purpose was complete. He says,

بعد أعوذ بالله من الشيطان الرجيم  

44  The seven heavens and the earth and everyone in them glorify Him.

There is nothing which does not glorify His praise.

But you do not understand their glorification.

He is All-Forbearing, Ever-Forgiving. 17:44

Everything of its nature glorifies Allah, which is what it was created to do, but not until Abu al-Bashir was there a part of creation that could appreciate what the Creator had done because Allah taught him what even the angels did not know, and the Jinn did not understand. Knowing the names of things and this inherent ability to communicate with language makes man the crown of creation, its highest point and the locus of the fulfilling of Allah’s intention with creation.

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Khutbah

Norwich 21st May 2021

La ilaha illa Allahu, wahdahu la sharika lahu, lahul mulku wa lahul hamd, wa Huwa ‘ala kulli shay’in qadir.

La ilaha ila Allah. There is nothing in existence worthy of being worshipped or submitting to other than Allah, that is, that any worship that is directed to anything other than Allah is misplaced, and merits response. Recall, that ‘jinn and men were only created to worship Him, subhanahu wa ta’ala.

Wahdahu la sharika lahu. Alone and without partner. He has no assistance in His Lordship and all outcomes are His.

Lahul Mulku wa lahul Hamd. The Kingdom, everything in existence belongs to Him and all Praise is His by right and reality.

Wa Huwa ‘ala kulli shay’in qadir. And He has power over everything, without exception. This is not potential power but actual dominance over everything that exists and everything that happens.

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